Tanulj, tinó, ökör lesz belőled, ha már a közmondásoknál tartunk; hoztam is az eredetit, én a helyedben ezt és a bevett formula precíz angol fordítását használnám a jövőben:
“repetitio mater studiorum,” ="repetition is the mother of (all) learning."
I just witnessed a Hungarian man slap his wife repeatedly in public and hit her on her head while she was holding their child’s hand by blaha. There were grown men standing there and walking past like it was normal. How can this be normal in this country? 😩 I wanted to intervene, but I felt so frightened. I don’t know what to do in these situations and I can’t believe this is normal!!
No, this is NOT normal in this country. Maybe others did not know either what to do in this situation.
this is the third year I’ve been living here and I’ve seen with my own eyes three occasions where a woman was touched and no one around did nothing. In Southern Africa or North America, a stranger would intervene and attack the abuser! In Hungary, they stare! I am completely shocked!!!
OMG(((( horrible(( just a small note: people (children, friends, colleagues, wives and husbands etc) behave with us exactly how we allow them to behave. I knew several women who were abused by their husbands (one actually was beaten till her death... 3 children left behind, she was my granny's neighbor ) and no one of them had ever complained! no one =( when I tried to convince one of these women to go to police - they didn't want, they even protected their abusers... (( it's a real co-dependent relationship. I wish it could be more free psychological help/awareness/education for such women who became victims and co-dependent wives(
The problem is the mentality. You can go to the shittiest parts of Baltimore or London and you’ll never witness anything like it on the streets because whoever lies a hand on a woman in public would get mauled by everyone on the streets. Domestic violence is a huge problem in most countries but I never witnessed anything like it on the streets and I’ve been to dodgy places in my lifetime. A man who beats a woman knows he’s in the wrong so they obviously try not to show it in public because they know they’ll get their head chopped off. Here, I think it’s different! If a man does it in public, he knows he can get away with it because “it’s blaha and people won’t get involved”. It’s as simple as that! I’m not saying this to be disrespectful towards Hungary but it is still far behind. What is standard here today, is no longer standard there and so on. However, I’m positive things will change for the better. But yeah... it fucking sucks to see this happen in 2019.
When I moved here 13 years ago I was shocked to see a man hitting his female partner pretty badly at a bus stop and nobody around doing anything. Everybody (around 10 people) pretended they just didn't notice that. It was weird. I came home that day and told about it to my Hungarian husband (ex by now). He looked at me as if I were an idiot and said: "Why anybody has to interfere? It's their business". Since then I heard about this attitude a lot here. And it makes it so much easier for the abusers as they know it very well.
A 16 Akciónapot 1991 óta világszerte november 25. (a nők elleni erőszak felszámolásának világnapja) és december 10. (emberi jogok világnapja) között rendezik meg civil szervezetek és magánszemélyek, hogy felkeltsék a nyilvánosság figyelmét, és tájékoztatást nyújtsanak a nők elleni erőszakról, kifejezzék szolidaritásukat az áldozatok iránt, és nyomást gyakoroljanak a döntéshozókra a nők elleni erőszak minden formájának megszüntetése érdekében.
én is, ilyenkor nem én nyomom a ppt-t, hanem fontoskodva hozzászolok, ha épp nem alszom rajta vagy majszolom a tegnap eletett antilop maradékát és közben qva fontosnak érzem magam
